What is love? Are you in love? How do you know when you’re in Love?

As you look around campus, you see many couples who claim they are deeply in love with each other. But what is love? How do you know when you’re really in love?

Some people say they know they’re in love because they can’t see themselves with anybody else except their current boyfriend or girlfriend, but that’s not always true. If they break up, they’ll most likely be with someone else within the next five
months.

Being in love also involves getting hurt. A lot of people told me when you get hurt, it’s an awful feeling. You can’t eat sleep or do your homework. You can’t do anything except think of him or her.

I’ve never been that hurt before. I’m usually the one that does the breaking up. It’s not that I’m bad or anything like that I just always fall out of love. I heard that it’s a good experience to get hurt, because you learn a lot about what you want from your next relationship and you also learn a lot about yourself. I remember when I first heard this, I wanted my next relationship to be with someone who would hurt me and dump me, but it didn’t tum out that way. My next relationship turned out to be with my wife. I am sure I love her more than any of my ex-girlfriends, but who knows, there may be someone out there who I’ll love more.

Love is such a carefree word. You probably said, “I love you,” to your ex’s and current boyfriends or girlfriends, and you probably have many more “I love you’s” to go with future boyfriends and girlfriends. Psychological studies say that there are 20 perfect girls for each guy and vice-versa.

How do you know when you’re going to find the right person? The person with whom you’re going to spend the rest of your life. You may think you love your current boyfriend or girlfriend more than any of your ex’s. You may think you’ve found the perfect one, but who knows? There may be a better one out there.