As a teenager, you might wonder why some people are successful in becoming people’s magnet when others are a failure at this. What is it that makes these people stand out in front of an average crowd? Why is it that only such people are able to make new and interesting friends while others are not? Do they have some supernatural powers on how to deal with others? The answer is obviously no. They are just aware of few strategies of which you are not yet aware. Therefore, Manipal Monk reveals some of the secrets on dealing effectively with people.
There is something special about every person in this world. Everyone is unique in their own way and has something good in him/her. All we need to do is highlight those good qualities in that person. Just ask yourself this question – if someone makes you feel good about yourself won’t you get attracted to that person? All you need to do is succeed in this and you will see the difference in your life.
You can make someone feel happy by just praising them for the good work they have done or their achievements. If someone is looking good, compliment that person. If one of your friends has bought a new dress, learn to compliment her, instead of feeling jealous. If someone has just won some tournament learn to appreciate their efforts. Do not be afraid to talk about your friends and their achievements in front of others. Appreciate the good qualities of others instead of bragging about your own self all the time. This would win you appraisals way beyond your imagination.
Try to boost other people’s ego by just complimenting them and letting them know how good they are at whatever stuff they do. Let them always know how smart they are in their respect fields.
These are a few simple tricks from Manipal Monk which would prove very useful if you try applying them in your lives. These few points could make a big difference in your life.